Life Lessons Advice from an 80-year-old-man

the life lessons advice that I found on tumblr and it is pretty cute advice, I mean there's meaning in it that we should follow, so it would be great to share with you guys, have fun while reading it ✨

+ have a firm handshake

+ look people in the eye

+ keep secrets

+ never give up on anybody, miracles happen everyday 

+ be brave.

   even if you're not, pretend to be

+ choose your life's mate carefully.

   from this one decision will come 90% of all your happiness or misery

+ make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out

+ lend only those books you never care to see again

+ never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have

+ when playing games with children, let them win

+ give people a second chance, but not third

+ be romantic

+ be a good loser

+ think twice before burdening a friend with a secret

+ when someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go

+ be modest, a lot was accomplished before you were born

+ keep it simple

+ beware of the person who has nothing to lose
+ life your life so that your epitaph could read, no regrets

+ be bold and courageous.

   when you look back on life, you'll the things you didn't do more than the ones you did

+ never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them

+ remember no one makes it alone.

   have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you

+ take charge of your attitude, don't let someone else choose it for you

+ begin each day with some of your favourite music

+ once in a while, take the scenic route

no one can be perfect at every single of things, trying is the best way 💗

with love, jijaahmad 💖

aku ada.

selalunya aku hanya minta untuk sentiasa ada,

khusus untuk orang-orang yang perlu aku.

tapi

aku mahu lenyap
buat seketika.

yang sentiasanya aku minta
biar ada aku saat mereka perlunya aku,
khusus.

kerna kosong itu juga sakit,
jadi aku mahu ada,
saat namaku dipanggil,
dan dinyatanya perlu.

katanya yang sentiasa,
— pinjam bahumu
buat buang setiap pekung di dada,

jadi tak mengapa sayang,

aku ada.

walau payah aku dengan rasa sendiri,

aku sedia menepis sedaya aku,

kerna aku mahu ada.

tapi

aku mahu lenyap

untuk seketika.

andai diri ini punya kuasa.

apa saja mahuku?

inginku agar dapat melihat seharian mereka,

yang sentiasa mahu aku ada saat jatuh

tapi tiada jejak saat aku perlu.

tanda tanya

adakah ketiadaan sementara aku itu terkesan pada jiwa?

atau bakal sedar bahwa aku juga yang sejujurnya,.....juga memerlukan.

ahh jiwa,

mari berjuang!

the special talent of mine

the conversation that still hanging around my mind-

"hi"

"hi"

"so..........."

"how far is it?"

"I don't wanna hurt you... 😔"

"is it too far?"

"all that I can ask is that I need your help"

"what kind of help?"

"can you please,...wait for me?"

"and I think that is one of my special talent, right?"

[ credit to owner ]

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if the parting is amicable,
it will be a good memory for us.

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my little note ;
Everyone can wait for each other,
but what kind of thing that makes the journey of waiting is beautiful?
The EFFORT. from both side. 
On how they manage and make it worth to wait for, it is gonna be so beautiful 🌻

nota yang terselit

Senyumlah,

tinggalkan sedihmu.

Bahagialah,

lupakan takutmu.

Sakit yang kamu rasakan,

tak setara dengan bahagia yang akan kamu dapatkan.

in between #1

I never know

that I would be like this.

I never imagine

I will be like this.

I never ask

to be like this.

to be in the between.

confuse,

doubtful,

worried,

and more.

it all came from different step,

that ask to be closer,

and it makes me think a lot,

for the future.

one with a lot of memories from the past,

and another one is asking to create more memories,

together ahead.

how long I will be
in the between?


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I have been searching a lot of cafe lately #cafehunting-
just to find places where I can sit down and enjoy 'me-time' with drink while journaling, enjoy the surrounding, and being accompany by the music, ugh I really love it! 💖

for today ;

i m a g i n e

Imagine being born without arms.
No arms to wrap around a friend ; no hands to hold the ones you love;
no fingers to experience touch ; no way to lift or carry things.
How much more difficult would life be if you were living without arms and hands?
Or what about legs? Imagine if instead of no arms, you had no legs.
No ability to dance, walk, run, or even stand.
Now put both of those scenarios together…no arms and no legs.
What would you do? How would that affect your everyday life?





source;
Reading, Vocabulary and Grammar 2 (Unit 4)

your sincere

i won't force you
because love doesn't need to be force
but stay,
please,
i can beg
but that would look like a force
and it hurts,
knowing that there will be a full stop,
                                                    soon.



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sorry for skip the month of june,
i am back again here in july.

spread the love 💘

sudden note

✨

it is never a false at trying,
but somehow—they judge,
and from there
it has turn to be a fault.

please—

it is a step to something bigger
and no one can predict how the future would be.

Even if the failure come again,
don't stop trying,
because your efforts make it looks bigger.

dear self,
keep fighting for better.


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self-note sometimes can be so good, I am impress with the outcome sometimes.
e.g.: "whoaaa, you made it to the end, jija? wow, that's great, congrats then!"
        *hugs myself*

words from old journal

duhai sang jiwa
yang sudah tetapnya hanya pada dunia,
jauh pergimu aku menanti,
tidak mengharap supaya kembali,
indah jalan susurmu
sentiasa aku ingini,
agar bahagia bersama pilihan hati.



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flip through old journal and found this one that I've made,
(( wow.....I always wrote these kind of words, i guess? ))
feeling super nostalgic (at the moment), so it need to be spread, heee.

💖

the notes in pink

[ reveal some pages from my journal ]

I loves wwwooorrrdddsss!
So, I kept almost most of it especially quotes, and when mom says something meaningful to me, and when tumblr and pinterest always have those stuff and you can just click it and pick up your pen and jot it down, I love it!

I am super excited, so do check these out;

I built a section in journal which is for keeping words that I found, and I think it is so cute! Eventhough I don't really into pink-ish, it's cute—

it is just some of it, there's more, of course—

👻

why does everyone run away from me?

don't go.

"Alhamdulillah"

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the only saying on earth

that has the power to make

you step back and take

a good look at what you gained,

and not what you lost

and I was stabbed thousands of times,

until it feel painful not to be stabbed.

I choose more that can motivate me the most as I would open to these pages and read it over again and smile with all of the calmness ✨

and if I die,
forgive me.



I'm in love!

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so what is your favourite section of your journal?

the pain #4

she keep falling

hardly

and it leave marks,

every time.

but she can't ever share the pain

she feels like the surrounding is laughing at her

and put all the blame on her.

she feels heavy

a burden without any help

so

she try to do as hard as she can

to pick up all the strength 

and want to raise up again.

until it doesn't hurt anymore

and her smile does not look sincere

so

people are asking

what is wrong with her?

—countless time

so she answer,

it is all because of me, myself.

the best of loyal

When they slept,
He was awake.
When they broke,
He held you up.
When every means failed,
He saved you.
When all the creation left you,
He remained.

He always remains.
Never forget when the storms pushed you to your knees
and there was no one else who could help you,
He carried you.
When you were broken and you swore this time it couldn't be fixed—never forget who fixed it.
Never forget what He saved you from.
Never forget how He put you back together.
That moment when you felt helpless and alone,
never forget who never left.
No matter who or what may be beside you now,
never forget those moments when it was only Him.

Only Him.

That is
loyalty.

watercolor

I guess it would be fun if I share watercolor tips for us to learn together and since I would be more into art for upcoming, so why not, right?


great!

let's get start right into it-

first of all—think of watercolor as a visual metaphor for approaching life ✨

water 'balance' ;

adjust what you can and let go what you can not.

example;

too much water?

spread everything out.

—and take this opportunity to add some color

embrace contrasts

light × dark moments, make the experience of life richer

fear not of trying

—try different colour combinations

—holding you brush differently 

different tools (even your fingers!)

—different order of water to colour combinations 

example;

water first,

then paint.

beyond rights & wrongs

what starts off as 'wrong' can often lead to 'new approaches' to rights.

life learning

—be as gentle with yourself as these freekles!

—learning is life long and comes most naturally when you are relaxed and having fun!

"TLDR" ;

control only what you can,

love contrasts,

keep trying,

wrongs are opportunities for new rights,

keep learning.

you also can check it at here! ;

t h a n k y o u !

if you are in love

Pillow Thoughts by Courtney Peppernell

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but I would say that it is beautiful

even if we say it have flaws in certain parts,

it would be a huge different of explanation from the poet.

It is all had their own meanings and

that's the special of each one of them.

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spread the love,

reminder

she is a flower,
but she isn't soft;
when her petals fall,
they hit like bullets.

(i.m.)



credit to owner

the notes for myself

"Just because you’re not crying, doesn’t mean you’re not sad.
  Just because you’re smiling. doesn’t mean you’re happy."

—Radio Romance, Episode 6  📻

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I choose to stop chasing.
I am not giving up,
I am just choose to do that.

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No,
I am not.

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I am now chasing,
to my dreams.
It may seem small,
but I'll make it big.

There's hill,
everywhere.
I need to brave myself,
and slowly making steps
to the top.

I should believe in myself,
and I believe that I can do it.

There's nothing to worry about
if you've start to believe in yourself.

but still,
lots of traps and tricks
that I have to go through,
but
I believe that I can do it.

You can cry,
you can be mad,
but please,
stand up again,
continue the journey to your dreams,
with smile,
and happy steps.


dear self,

It's a long journey,
but I know you can do it.


keep smiling & stay positive. Allah will guide your way if you put trust on Him, in shaa Allah  😊

paint me

(english lyrics)

One layer, two layers, getting painted
Here and there, getting engraved
Keep painting me

White, me without you back then
I was white as a canvas
I was lonely but it was peaceful, always

Yellow, when you suddenly came to me
Suddenly, in my heart
A spring-like warmth came inside, naturally

One layer, two layers, getting painted like watercolors
Here and there, getting engraved like a tattoo
Every spot you pass by gets colored
Wth a different color memory
Thicker and thicker, like the black night

Keep painting me
With more memories
Hurry and paint me
With only your scent
So it can not be erased
So no one else but you
Can draw in my heart

Red, the moment you hotly hugged me
My heart exploded like a volcano
A red mark is left in my heart, it's still warm

Blue, the first time I cried because of you
Like an ocean with an unknown depth
It was drawn so blue
Do you remember?

One layer, two layers, getting painted like watercolors
Here and there, getting engraved like a tattoo
Every spot you pass by gets colored
Wth a different color memory
Thicker and thicker, like the black night

Keep painting me
With more memories
Hurry and paint me
With only your scent
So it can not be erased
So no one else but you
Can draw in my heart

It's alright if it turns blacker and blacker
Our memories
It's getting thicker and thicker, like espresso

Still, keep painting me
Do not stop
Without you, it's pointless
Fill me up
So there's no empty spaces
Only you are my painter

—MAMAMOO

link; 

MAMAMOO (마마무)—Paint Me (칠해줘)

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my current favourite song and their lyrics—so beautiful
 and woaa moonbyul, i can't—
they really have their own colors 🌈

bad days

things to remember on your bad days.

I got it from tumblr and jot some down in my 'words to save' book (well, that's my books' name).

one
Others can only give you words and things ; only you can give yourself feelings.

two
The only time a friend should make you cry is because
you're so overwhelmed with how greatly they appreciate you.

three
You are growing and changing every second.
You are not the same person you were five minutes ago.
Embrace the growth and change the world.

four
It's okay to eliminate toxic things and toxic people.
You are too important to hold onto things that don't help you improve.

five
Don't get mad at someone for not understanding how you feel,
when you don't tell them how you feel.

six
You can't control what people will say to you,
but you can control how you react to them.

seven
You are not your struggles.
You are not your emotional breakdowns.
You are not your past.

eight
Be passionate.
Be unpredictable.
Be beautiful.
Be courageous.
Be excitable.
Be yourself.
Just please be anything but not realistic.

nine
Please,
please don't put your everything into another humain being
because it will not be good for either of you.

ten
Never be ashamed of past decisions,
past relationships
and past experiences,
because what makes you upset now,
once made you happy.

eleven, the last
You are so much more than just pretty.
You were not made to be pretty.
You were made to decorate the earth with your soul
and scream your name at the top of your lungs
until there is no way that they can forget about you.
So,
don't let anyone simplify you to just pretty.

🌹

that's it, have a nice day!

flutter, the cute cream

I bought something cute 💕

scroll down and read it if you are free,

have a nice day!

I got this hand cream from watsons but I notice not all watsons store have it (so—do check 'em all). It is so eye-catching ✨, so I need to grab one. It is for RM9.90, which is such a good deal for a hand cream, but it got some discount while I want to purchase it (it is in november last year), so, if I'm not mistaken, I bought it for RM6.30. As for its job, what I can say is—it's not really the best, I mean the texture—it is nice but overall it is just okay.

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For cute cosmetics and

awesome accessories look

no further than flutter.

No rules. Just fun!

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Would I repurchase the hand cream?

Maybe~ (I can't decide, helpppp meee)

But I guess it would be nice as a present or a gift especially for girls and women because it is in pink (I don't know if they have other colors), it would be great. Or even for those who personally loves pink, that's would be more great!

Isn't it cute? Even for me who doesn't really into pink thingy, fall for it—

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I bought new hand cream from Innisfree.

Maybe it would be the next entry in the label of terselit-beauty-post or maybe...upcoming?

But I'll make sure to update a small innisfree haul as soon as possible!

cycle

I'm the strength

to make feel alive

to make to have someone
to make as a friend

and for the life,

so she lock me up.

but I've always escape

wondering around

and lay down under the blue sky.

until at the end
I will be back,

always.

nowhere to go
come back to my
cage.